The "f" word...

I'm really quite tired hearing the "f" word. Everywhere you turn people want to be friends. Friends??? Do you have any idea what kind of commitment that takes?

Now friend means different things to different people. Women, if they don't want to have sex with you will use the "f" word. Let's be friends. Women generally will not have sex with men they consider friends.

Men, on the other hand, will call a woman a friend, ("she's my best friend." )to try to have sex with her. Really, which straight man has a woman as his best friend.

People use the "f" word all the time, mostly they mean aquintance or someone they can tolerate. Usually though, its out of sight out of mind. I called you last, its your turn now.

"Hey Rarotonga, how ARE you?"

"Uh, my family all died in a horrible car crash. I've lost the will to live."

"That's great, give me a call sometime. We'll do lunch."

Thanks friend its great that YOU are here.

I posted this a few weeks ago...

Sometimes people want to be friends but what they really want is for YOU to be THEIR friend.

Can we call a truce? Enough games? Be honest? Aaah, too radical. Human nature will ultimately prevail.